| |
8
THE CHALLENGER
Overview of Type Eight
Everyday
language comments regularly on the reasons for which power is being pursued. If
it is narrowly confined to the interest of an individual or group, one says it
is being sought for selfish ends; if it reflects the interest or perception of
a much larger number of people, those involved are thought inspired leaders or
statesmen...
Much less appreciated is the extent to which the purpose of power is the exercise of
power itself. In all societies, from the most primitive to the ostensibly most
civilized, the exercise of power is profoundly enjoyed. Elaborate rituals of
obeisance—admiring multitudes, applauded speeches, precedence at dinners and
banquets, a place in the motorcade, access to the corporate jet, the military
salute—celebrate the possession of power. These rituals are greatly rewarding;
so are the pleas and intercessions of those who seek to influence others in the
exercise of power; and so, of course, are the acts of exercise—the instructions
to subordinates, the military commands, the conveying of court decisions, the
statement at the end of the meeting when the person in charge says, 'Well, this
is what we'll do.' A sense of self-actuated worth derives from both the context
and the exercise of power. On no other aspect of human existence is vanity so
much at risk; in William Hazlitt's words, 'The love of power is the love of
ourselves.' It follows that power is pursued not only for the service it
renders to personal interests, values, or social perceptions but also for its
own sake, for the emotional and material reward inherent in its possession and
exercise. (John Kenneth Galbraith, The
Anatomy of Power, 9-10.)
It is
difficult to describe power without roaming into ambiguous matters—into a
consideration of leadership, authority, will, courage, self-reliance, and
destructiveness. What is the difference between willfulness and self-assertion,
for example? "Will" can be thought of as good or bad, although more
by its use than by what it is. It is difficult to say what gives a person
authority or makes someone a particularly able leader. Is it proper to call the
use of power with which we agree healthy, while condemning its use by those
with whom we disagree? We cannot possibly begin to do justice to the
complexities of power here, although they will, of course, be touched on
because this chapter concerns itself with the personality type which most
exemplifies power.
In the
personality type Eight, we see courage, will, self-reliance, leadership,
authority, self-assertion—and the dark side of power, the ability to destroy
what power has created.
In the Instinctive TriadEights
are one of the three types in the Instinctive Triad. All three personality
types of this Triad attempt to keep the environment from affecting them in
different ways—Eights by dominating it, Nines by ignoring it, and Ones by
striving to perfect it. Eights tend to assert themselves powerfully in the
environment so that no one and nothing in it can have power over them.
Of all
the types of the Enneagram, Eights are the most openly aggressive personality.
They possess a powerful connection with their instinctive drives which gives
them tremendous energy, self-confidence, and the desire to impact their world
in some significant way. They are take-charge people who want to test their
wills against the environment, including, of course, other people. No one can
ignore Eights, and others do so only at their own risk. Because they are so
strong-willed and forceful, Eights are among the easiest types to identify,
although for the same reason they can be the most difficult to deal with
because getting their way is so important to them. If they are healthy, they
use their immense self-confidence and will to remake the environment in some
constructive way. But if they are unhealthy, whatever power Eights have
deteriorates into the desire to prevail over others, no matter what the cost,
even if it means destroying anyone who stands in their way.
The
source of their problem with resistance is that Eights that they are in
conflict with the environment. They see the world around them in terms of
struggle and endurance, and believe they must continually test their mettle
against their environment if they are going to survive. This outlook leads them
to a powerfully assertive style of self-expression, and because they assert
themselves so readily, and usually with favorable results for themselves, they
develop a sturdy feeling of confidence in their own powers. Eights have more
steely determination and single-mindedness than any other personality type.
What Eights do not recognize, however, is that their capacity to assert
themselves can become immensely destructive if they allow their willfulness to
get out of hand. When this happens, others are often galvanized into action
against them, and their lives then actually are torn asunder by conflicts and
strife. Their fears of being rendered helpless in a harsh and unforgiving world
are made true.
Eights
correspond to the extroverted intuitive type in the Jungian typology.
The [extroverted] intuitive...has a keen
nose for anything new and in the making. Because he is always seeking out new
possibilities, stable conditions suffocate him....Neither reason nor feeling
can restrain him or frighten him away from a new possibility, even though it
goes against all his previous
convictions... Consideration for the welfare of others is weak. Their psychic
well-being counts as little with him as does his own. He has equally little
regard for their convictions and way of life, and on this account he is often
put down as an immoral and unscrupulous adventurer. Since his intuition is
concerned with externals and with ferreting out their possibilities, he readily
turns to professions in which he can exploit these capacities to the full. Many
business tycoons, entrepreneurs, speculators, stockbrokers, politicians, etc.,
belong to this type...
It
goes without saying that such a type is uncommonly important both economically
and culturally. If his intentions are good, i.e., if his attitude is not too
egocentric, he can render exceptional service as the initiator or promoter of
new enterprises. He is the natural champion of all minorities with a future.
Because he is able, when oriented more to people than to things, to make an
intuitive diagnosis of their abilities and potentialities, he can also 'make'
men. His capacity to inspire courage or to kindle enthusiasm for anything new
is unrivalled, although he may already have dropped it by the morrow. The stronger
his intuition, the more his ego becomes fused with all the possibilities he
envisions. He brings his vision to life, he presents it convincingly and with
dramatic fire, he embodies it, so to speak. But this is not play-acting, it is
a kind of fate. (C. G. Jung, Psychological
Types, 368-369.)
Eights
are confident that they can assert themselves until they achieve their goals
and, as Jung notes, if they are not too egocentric, their personal goals will
be extremely beneficial to others. They may build skyscrapers, cities, or
nations which, while personal expressions, are also necessary for the
well-being of others. Eights are the natural leaders among the personality
types, and may even achieve some measure of historical greatness if their goals
extend far enough beyond themselves to the common welfare. Their enormous
self-confidence inspires others so that everyone's energies can be harnessed in
a worthwhile undertaking.
Unfortunately,
as Jung implies, Eights tend to become egocentric. They get carried away by the
momentum of their egos and the projects they have set in motion. Even average
Eights begin to pit themselves against others in a struggle for power and
dominance, as if the welfare of others automatically means that their own
welfare must suffer. Average Eights feel that there can be only one person in
charge, and they intend to be that person. They feel that the world must adjust
itself to them and that others must fall in line to help them accomplish their
goals.
Given
this disposition, it is not surprising that if they become unhealthy, Eights
can be extremely dangerous. They become ruthlessly aggressive in the pursuit of
their goals, even if it means, as it ultimately does, that the rights and needs
of others will be sacrificed so that they alone can prevail. Thus, the two ends
of the spectrum of their traits are starkly contrasting: when healthy, no other
personality type has as great a capacity for exerting a constructive influence
in the lives of so many people. But the reverse is that no other personality
type can so completely misuse power or become so totally destructive as
unhealthy Eights.
Problems with Aggression and Repression The
three personality types of the Instinctive Triad have common problems with
aggression, and with a lack of self-development as a result of repression. Each
of these types has aggressive impulses which are either totally repressed (the
Nine), or sublimated into idealistic work (the One), or forcefully expressed
(the Eight). Also, each of these three types represses some aspect of the self,
resulting in a characteristic effect on their personalities: in general, none
of these three types thinks there is anything wrong with them. They think that
all significant problems lie outside themselves in the environment, which they
attempt either to dominate (Eights), find union with (Nines), or improve
(Ones). Moreover, repression protects these types from feeling anxiety about
the consequences of their actions, so they are able to go about their lives
relatively unencumbered by emotional conflicts or self-doubt. In the short
term, such a disposition simplifies matters for these types, but it can make
life very difficult for others.
At
first glance, it is difficult to see what Eights might be repressing. They certainly
have few problems asserting themselves and their ideas, and they like to get
straight to the point when they are communicating with people. They can be
courageous, and will take on battles for the sake of the people they love, the
things they believe in, or simply for their own self-interest. They have hearty
appetites and enjoy their pleasures—so what are Eights not allowing in
themselves?
Basically,
Eights are driven by the fear of being dominated, harmed or controlled by
others. As we have just seen, they see the world as a fairly "dog-eat-dog"
place, and they do not intend to be eaten. Consequently, Eights believe they
must keep up their guard and toughen themselves against the harsh realities of
life, but in order to do this they must repress their own tenderness and
vulnerability.
Eights
are usually very sensitive as children, although their high energy and natural
exuberance are often resisted or even feared by adults. Their vitality attracts
friends, but also others who are threatened by it and so attack young Eights in
subtle and not so subtle ways. As a result, Eights learn to steel themselves
against life, to armor themselves, but they do so at the expense of their
innate sensitivity and gentleness. Most Eights recall some pivotal childhood
crisis in which they realized that they could no longer afford to be so open,
and feel this intensely as one of the greatest tragedies of their lives.
But
tragedy or not, Eights have made the decision to toughen themselves, and so
their vulnerability, their softness, their need for affection, and their
ability to ask for help must all be repressed. Most of all, Eights must repress
their own fear because it is potentially the greatest threat to their
independence and strength. Of course, beneath the surface, Eights are as afraid
as everyone else, but they have learned to limit the degree to which their fear
registers consciously. When it does, Eights will intentionally take on
challenges which confront this fear directly. If they fear heights, they will learn
to climb mountains or go sky diving. If they are afraid of animals, they will
go hunting or trekking in the wilderness. Although we have mentioned the
counterphobic aspect of type Six, type Eight really represents the
counterphobic approach to life par excellence.
Ironically, though, Eights who fear being controlled and dominated end up being
controlled and dominated by this very fear.
Another
casualty of type Eight’s repression of vulnerability is their connection with
other people. In healthy Eights, we see the big-hearted, jovial disposition
which reflects an Eight’s natural feelings state, but as they succumb to their
fears, they begin to believe that they cannot afford to let others get close to
them. They find it difficult to trust, and so try to convince themselves that
they do not need people. They also harden their hearts by telling themselves
that others are around because the Eight has something they need. This is
particularly sad, because in fact, while Eights may recognize that people need them,
they often do not believe that people love them, and they are often very afraid
to admit the degree to which they really need and love others.
Parental Orientation As
young children, Eights were ambivalent to the nurturing-figure, the person in
their early development who mirrored them, cared for them, and provided
affection and a sense of personal value. This is often the mother or a mother
substitute, but in some families, the father or an older sibling may serve as
the nurturing-figure.
Eights
did not strongly bond with or identify with their nurturing figure (like
Threes), but they also did not psychologically separate from them entirely
either (like Sevens). As a result, Eights learned that they could maintain some
kind of connection with the nurturing-figure and fit into the family system by
functioning in a role that was complementary to the nurturing-figure. The
nurturing-figure represented (and therefore "owned") the qualities associated
with motherhood: warmth, caring, nurturance, approval, gentleness, and
sensitivity. Thus, the Eight identified with the complementary patriarchal
role, and learned that the best way to get some sense of value, affection, and
nurturance was to be "the strong one," the little protector, the one that
others turn to for strength and guidance, especially in a crisis. Eights then
identified completely with this role, feeling that to give it up is to lose
their identity as well as any hope of ever being loved or cared for.
Like
Twos and Fives, the other "ambivalent" types, Eights feel that their well-being
and survival are dependent on fulfilling their role in life. Twos believe that
they must always selflessly nurture and care for others, Fives believe that
they have no role to play and must find one, and Eights believe that they must
be the decisive, strong person who can handle the big problems and who is
indifferent to hardship and suffering. As with all of the types, the healthy
manifestations of these roles can lead to extremely important contributions to
the people around them, or even in the world. However, as fear and insecurity
grows, these roles become prisons which trap the types and prevent them from
expressing the full range of their humanity.
As we
have seen, Eights begin to repress their fear and vulnerability so that they
will be strong enough to meet whatever challenges they must. In highly
dysfunctional families or in otherwise dangerous childhood environments, those
challenges may be considerable, and in Eights, the result is a tough,
aggressive person with a limited capacity to get close to others or to
acknowledge their hurt. It is as if Eights must construct a tough carapace of
aggressive ego defenses so no one will ever again be able to get at the soft,
vulnerable person inside.
If
Eights have suffered serious abuse in childhood, their faith in others and in
the world becomes so damaged and closed off that they live in constant
anticipation of rejection and betrayal. They find it difficult to trust anyone,
and are consumed with rage at the injustices they feel have been perpetrated
upon them. Unlike Sixes, who also have trust issues, and who may develop an
aggressive style of defense against the world, Eights do not believe they can
rely on anyone or anything outside themselves. Within their family system, they
experienced themselves as the authoritative person. There was no one else to
turn to for reassurance or guidance, so Eights are unwilling to allow their
destiny or decision making capacity to be placed in anyone else’s hands ("The
buck stops here.")
If
there was some degree of warmth, nurturance, and mutual support in the Eight’s
early childhood environment, chances are good that as an adult, the Eight will
take a strongly protective role, especially with the few people that they trust
and are close to. If there was little support or nurturance available, Eights
tend to grow up with an "every man for himself" attitude. They feel as though
they have had to struggle and fight to survive on their own, and if others are
going to make it, they better be able to take care of themselves. Looking out
after "number one" is a full time job, and caring too much about others becomes
a survival risk.
We can
see very clearly in this type how a child’s natural qualities—in this case,
high energy, physical endurance, and willpower—combine with a family
constellation to crystallize a particular pattern of behaviors and attitudes
that determine a person’s identity. In the discussion of the Levels that
follows, we will also see how these natural qualities, when positively
encouraged and expressed lead to constructive, empowering human beings who
leave a lasting legacy behind them. At the other end of the scale, where these
energies have been twisted and distorted by abuse, we see vengeance,
destructiveness, and a legacy of another kind.
(from Personality Types, p. 298-306)
Return to Top
The Enneagram Institute is a Service Mark of Enneagram Personality Types, Inc.
All Images, Content and Layout Copyright The Enneagram Institute 1998-2008.
[Home] [Back to Top] [Free RHETI Sampler] [Free QUEST Test] [Full RHETI Enneagram Test] [QUEST–TAS Test] [IVQ Instincts Test] [The Enn. Cards–Sorts] [Interpreting Test Results] [Type Descriptions]
[How the System Works] [Levels of Development]
[The Traditional Enneagram]
[Practical Applications] [Relationships—Type Compatibilities]
[Personal Growth] [Enneagram & Spirituality]
[Addictions & Type] [Business Resources]
[Enneagram FAQs] [Articles & Interviews] [Discussion Board]
[Free EnneaFeatures Viewer Download]
[Free RHETI Sampler Download] [Free Materials]
[Books & Resources] [Schedule]
[Training Program] [Workshops] [Private Consultations]
[About The Institute] [Institute Network] [Teachers & Referral Listing]
[Guestbook] [Contact The Institute]
|
|